“Each step forwards to become the person we are makes it harder to go backwards, to return to the shadowy, private world of closed doors and shuttered windows. The experience, the awakening of one’s true self, after being so long suppressed, can never be adequately explained with language.”
Lili Elbe (1882-1931).

Hi/Ya,
I’m Lones (she/her).
Through my work I have supported people who have needed to access gender-affirming compression tops and were struggling to work out how to fit them and which ones would be best suited. Many items were returned and replaced causing so much frustration for every person waiting for some euphoria. I realised that Tasmania doesn’t have a ‘shop front’ for these garments. Now more than ever the community needs a compassionate, trauma-informed space where they know they will be seen for who they are and be assisted with what they need.
This understanding has lead me on a journey to provide this service, for free, to those folks who want to be fitted with the most appropriate and safest options for compression tops, binders, and tucking or packing underwear. In many cases I can direct people to different funds that will financially support the purchase.
I bring to this space almost 40 years of nursing and even longer as a seamstress. I am an ethicist who speaks out for the transgender and gender-diverse community, and a counsellor. Most importantly, I am a queer mother of trans kids, and I am an engaged and active advocate for the LGBTQIA+ community.
I will never say you will feel safe, as I don’t know your journey, and most come with complexities. I will tell you that I offer a safe space where you can be you, and I will show you the respect and care you deserve.
And I love to go to an op-shop. So if you just want a fun time trying on a new you, I’m your person. You will always need feathers for the frame.
This is our space, so we can be cheeky and have some fun.
Together in Pride!
I would like to thank these amazing businesses for supporting this project, and I hope to grow their collections and bring others on board over time.
I acknowledge the Palawa peoples, the traditional owners and ongoing custodians of the land where I am grateful to live, work, and play – Lutruwita. I am shaded by magnificent Kunanyi and reflected in the beautiful waters of Timtumili Minanya. I pay my respects to elders, past and present, and recognise cultural connection to Country and Creation Spirits as vital to the wellbeing of this island.
